Please under stand me.

Filed under: Personal — aleonfire at 2:07 am on Wednesday, November 12, 2008

Temperament is a configuration of observable personality traits, such as habits of communication, patterns of action, and sets of characteristic attitudes, values, and talents. It also encompasses personal needs, the kinds of contributions that individuals make in the workplace, and the roles they play in society. Dr. David Keirsey has identified mankind’s four basic temperaments as the Artisan, the Guardian, the Rational, and the Idealist.

Each temperament has its own unique qualities and shortcomings, strengths and challenges. What accounts for these differences? To use the idea of Temperament most effectively, it is important to understand that the four temperaments are not simply arbitrary collections of characteristics, but spring from an interaction of the two basic dimensions of human behavior: our communication and our action, our words and our deeds, or, simply, what we say and what we do.

Aren’t we Friends?

Filed under: Personal — aleonfire at 1:06 am on Tuesday, November 4, 2008

I’ve been having some wacky stuff happening to me.

Out of all the wacky stuff that has been happening, I scared of falling in love. I have been dating about … three ish guys during the past two months. I’m such a dumb ass. I mean I’m not, but I am. I don’t like these guys, and I never did. I think everyone deserves a chance. So that’s why I went on a date with each of them. These guys are just too…. normal. They are boring. I hate boring. After the first date it was like eh.. why am I here. So I turned them into my “special” friends. and believe me.. they even suck at that. ;[

Guy Number one: Mexican, in his mid 20’s.he’s a slave to his job./work has no papers. likes the younger girls. (keep asking me if i was 15.. I think now I upgraded to an 18 yr) I can barely communicate with him. I dont like him…. fun, but not for me. boring.. he is boring. didn’t finish HS. .. chunty humor… he is not my type….no matter how much he changes for me. and he wasn’t me to have kids with him…. ah. no! I don’t thinking so.

Guy number two: African (yep born over there, lol) well spoken, smart, but makes everything dull, and eh, LVN, early 20’s. this one is strictly a booty call. I can talk to him about anything….. and yea… booty call. okay humor. oh and you DON’T need a wheelchair *wink wink*.

Guy number three: Caucasian. 23, biker. tall, virgin but horny. lol has mono wants naked pix… (ah… no :\ ) boring, boring, boring, typical guy. oh and a BS in engineering. humor sucks

There’s guys bore me. I’d my guy to be smart. fun smart. like random facts smart. funny. I dork, geek, nerdy, fun, random. and the weird thing is.. I have found him.. but I’m scared of giving him a chance. I don’t like this feeling it makes me well weak and vulnerable. I hate it. I don’t want to fall in love because it will ruin my career plans. This guy is someone I just recently met. I have stop talking to the other douche bags. tee hee. This other guy feels like my soul-mate… and I hate it heartcore.

I got a pain in my chess and I can’t breeif.

Filed under: Personal — aleonfire at 9:06 pm on Wednesday, October 29, 2008

I have been getting sharp pains on the left side of my chest. It’s like someone is stabbing me. I’m scared I might get a heart attack. I mean I’m kinda health, and there’s no medical history in my family about heat attacks… so I’m like shitty bricks I’m the first one to have one. Or even worst that it’s boob cancer.

Well I’m sleepy peace.

Chocolate

Filed under: Music/Shows — aleonfire at 8:08 pm on Friday, October 24, 2008

I got my phone! yay. I’m so happy. Very very very very happy. Oh how I missed texting ppl. I hated it. but man is it handy.

I’m scared. I’m having chest pains. Its like someone is stabing me. Ahh I hurts. I can barely laugh or strech because of it.

I went to see Conor Oberst and The Mystic Valley Band. It was awesome! I knew that he had cover Kodachrome is previous shows and I seriously was not expecting him to cover it this time. But he did!!!!

I was so psych! I loved it.  It was a fun show considering that I went by myself. I even got asked why I was alone. Truthfully I’d only go with someone I’d know would have enjoyed it.. Or I cared about becasue.. I don’t want to be all emo at an event I want to have fun at. So If I was going to get pissed I’d rather it be at myself. He didn’t play any bright eyes songs which I know he did at some other shows but i’m glad he didn’t. Also the down side was that there was loud douche baggy people next to me.. They were drunk, and you know when there’s a slow song everyone shuts up and listens.. well these people would repeat every other word he said.. I was ready to punch them into nextweek. but.. They looked so effing silly falling and bumping into and on people. I started to laugh at them.

How to make millions.

Filed under: Finances — aleonfire at 8:43 am on Wednesday, October 15, 2008

I finally joined PRIMERICA.

I didn’t want to, but I got sucked in. They are actually not a scam. I’ve been going to their meetings for about a month. I keep hearing the same thing. Thought they might change their statements and promises.. But um.. no. The only that changed was the price to join..which is LOWER.. and that is kinda awesome. People do make alot of money. … Alot. I just want to make enough to pay off my debt and help out the parents. I’m not money hungry. but If this place puts me through college, and helps me do my practice free of charge for patients.. hell yea. I will quit as soon as my parents are stable ish. I hate the fact that is being a financial adviser.. which I hate dealing with finances.

Oh I’m recently very much obsessed with Anthony Green’s song Dear Child (I’v been trying to reach you) They beat/rhythm is great! I love it.

NO NO NO 8 & 4

Filed under: Movements — aleonfire at 8:08 pm on Thursday, October 9, 2008

So I’ve been reading some blogs. So I have some people around me asking Why they should vote no on 8. The main reason is .. America is said to be the land of the free. but we are constantly putting restrictions and redefining what free means. Do we have the freedom of speech? I say anyone can marry the person why want. If a transgendered male (he’s a girl now) wants to marry a women. That would be consider okay right? Because he was born a male and is marrying a women. But since he looks like a woman he can’t marry the woman he/she loves? That is retarted. I know that gay marriage is legal in some states. But these religious nuts that want to include the work “marriage between a man and woman” part in the amendment. is just wrong. how are you going to process if we clearly want to regress to the “DARK AGES”.

Marriage should be between two person that love each other and what to take their commitment to the next level.

Just like heterosexual people there are a equal majority that dont want to get married. They get cold feet. So just make these possible for those that want it. we are all human , most people think that same. other that don’t want to make a difference and improve it. learn more about it. noonpro8.org

now. NO on 4. This proposition is to make doctors that threat pregnant teens notify the teens parents of her state within 48 hrs.

“Proposition 4. Prop 4 threatens teen safety by mandating parental notification prior to a minor terminating a pregnancy. Parents rightfully want to be involved in their teenagers’ lives and we want our daughters to come to us if they become pregnant, and most do. But in the real world, laws like this don’t work. Prop 4 can’t force teens to talk to their parents, but it may force them to do something desperate and dangerous.”

For this the Yes people are saying it protect against predictors.. NO. if this does pass predictors of all sort will praying on these teens. People that preform back alley abortions. “selling” stuff that will make the teen lose the fetus. Parents are just nosy, and want to know EVERYTHING has happens to their child.. but come one.. they have a right to privacy. This prop is not going to make teens improve communication with their parents.
I say if a girl want to tell her mom, she’s pregnant its because she WANTS to and feels safe telling her. Some girls have douchey parents. This prop can cause serious problems for a teen living with foster parents, substance abuse parents, and other guardians she might live with.

if you are teen TELL YOUR PARENTS TO VOTE NO seriously you might end up saving a life.. there’s some parents that are nuts like that.

p.s. I’m straight, but I have some very close friends/relatives that are gay. and I support them 1000% I’m not a teen but I can even see that prop 4 is trash.

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